Things to Know

Travel + Accommodation

Odd and Ends

  • No hard alcohol is allowed onsite. We’ll have beer and wine on site for different meals. We’ll all be kicked out if anyone brings hard alcohol. Please don’t.
  • It’s nature. Paths onsite are forest trails or hilly paved roads. You’ll want to leave your stiletto heels at home.
  • Average temperatures in Ben Lomond in January range from 58F during the day to 45F at night. We’re conscious many of you are coming from places where winter involves below freezing temperatures and covering all appendages you want to keep. We can debate throughout the weekend whether it’s “warm” or “cold” but we hope either way that you plan clothing accordingly.
  • We’re really excited to be able to celebrate with you!
  • Parking on site is limited. Please be eco-friendly and carpool where you can.
  • Drive carefully. It’s a scenic drive. The road leading up to the retreat center is very windy and true to nature, is not lit at night. We’re holding the ceremony during the day so that people can be back on the road well before the sun sets at 5pm in January. We’d recommend budgeting extra time.

Things to do

Do you have a registry?

  • If you know either or both of us, you know that we value living simply or decorating in “minimalistic” style. Max lived in Peru for 3 months out of a backpack, and Elaine may (or may not) have had the smaller carry on bag when they first traveled together. We’re so thankful for your friendship and more than anything would value your prayers and friendship as we figure out life as a married couple. If you feel strongly about getting us something, here are a few ideas of things we’d appreciate.